Premature ejaculation is when a man ejaculates sooner than he or his partner would like, and it causes distress. It is one of the most common sexual concerns and can be helped. It may be lifelong or begin later in life.
Common contributors
- Performance anxiety and stress
- Relationship difficulties
- Erectile difficulties, and prostate or thyroid problems
- Some medicines, and drug or alcohol use
- Biological factors in lifelong cases
What helps
Behavioural techniques (stop-start and squeeze), counselling and sex therapy, and medicines such as dapoxetine or topical anaesthetics prescribed by a doctor. Open communication with a partner helps.
What The Tole can offer
In a private consultation, acupuncture and Chinese herbal medicine can be offered as support, particularly where stress or tension plays a part. The evidence is limited and we do not promise a result. We do not sell sexual-performance products, and we caution against unregulated ones that may contain hidden drugs.
Acupuncture and herbal treatment at The Tole
At The Tole, treatment combines neuro acupuncture and Chinese herbal medicine, in the way developed by our founder, Dato’ Leong Hong Tole. Master Tole is the founder of TheTole neuro acupuncture and TheTole neuro brain powder, and the treatment is based on his own technique and on the family’s ancestral formulas. His team reviews your history and any medical reports, then recommends acupuncture, herbal preparations, or both. Herbs are prepared for the individual, using natural herbs.
Treatment at The Tole is used together with your medical treatment, to support your recovery. We never ask anyone to stop the care their doctor has advised.
You can walk in during opening hours without an appointment. If you live far away, email your medical reports and we will advise you on herbs and, where suitable, an intensive course of acupuncture. Herbs can be couriered to any country, usually in 3 to 5 working days. See herbs by post.
Please consult before you buy. Before you purchase any TheTole herbs, including TheTole neuro brain powder, we recommend consulting Dato’ Tole or his team first, so that you receive the correct prescription for your condition.
What to expect at your first visit
- Walk in or message us. No appointment is needed during opening hours. You can also send a WhatsApp message first.
- Tell us your story. The Master’s team asks about your symptoms and history, and looks at any reports you bring.
- Agree a plan. They recommend neuro acupuncture, herbal medicine, or both, and explain what to expect.
- Follow up. If you take herbs, we ask you to update us on your progress by email.
Why people choose The Tole
- Founded by Dato’ Master Leong Hong Tole, creator of TheTole neuro acupuncture and TheTole neuro brain powder
- A family practice, now in its fourth generation, in Kuala Lumpur since 1992
- Officially opened by the Health Minister on 31 January 1993
- Herbal formulas prepared for each patient, using natural herbs
- Walk-ins welcome, and herbs couriered to any country
Common questions
Is this common?
Yes. Many men experience it at some time.
Can acupuncture help?
Some small studies are positive, but evidence is limited.
Should I see a doctor?
Yes, to check for related problems and discuss proven options.
See a doctor first if
- Sudden new onset, or with erection problems
- Pain, discharge or blood when ejaculating
- Distress, low mood or relationship strain
- Before using any sexual-enhancement product
Ready to talk to us?
Message us on WhatsApp, or walk in during opening hours. No appointment is needed.
Traditional Chinese medicine is offered as a complement to, not a replacement for, medical care. Used together with your doctor’s treatment, it aims to support your recovery. Responses vary from person to person, and no particular result can be promised. Please keep your doctor informed about any herbs or treatments you use.